Miss

The idea of missing something has a special feeling that no other emotion can replicate. The idea of missing implies emptiness. There’s something, some part of your life that is empty. Whatever was filling it has disappeared [remembering that in order for you to miss something, it had to be present in your life at some point]. It’s a completely unique emotion. 

Sometimes the things we miss aren’t the obvious of things. Take for example, love and it’s place in missing someone. You might think you miss a person, when in reality you miss everything that came with that person. The late night talks associated with them, the funny things you would do together, the inside jokes you had, the plans you made, the feelings you shared. Although they were all associated with that one person, maybe it’s those factors of the relationship you miss instead. I mean, when you think about the person you miss the most, right this second, what do you really miss about them? These same ideas I mentioned, or real quirks and imperfections about them that make them who they are?

Maybe you don’t want that person to come back, but you want those feelings to return instead. In that case, you aren’t in love with anyone. You’re in love with the idea of being in love. 

Whatever you miss, day by day, you’ll miss it a little less. More things come up that distract your time, and more importantly: distract your mind. Time heals all wounds — or in this case— fills all empty spaces. 

That’s what was on my mind, Keep dreaming and Inspiring.