The twisted thing about humans is that we do hurt the ones we love the most. When they hurt us we want them to feel how hurt we are, so we do things or say things to hurt them even more. It’s vindictive, and the moment we do/say something hurtful we usually tend to regret it. It’s a terrible habit. It pushes people away. You can’t unsay the things you’ve said and you can’t undo the things you’ve done. How do you even start such a vicious cycle? More importantly how do you end it? When you love somebody, you want to see them happy because it makes you happy to see that big smile on their face, or the twinkle in their eyes. So why hurt them ?
They say it’s healthy for people to fight and argue but when does it go from being healthy to realising you’re not in a happy relationship anymore? When do you give up on everything you had together, and all the things you wanted to do together? If one of you gives up then there’s nothing you can do. It’s over then, and the sooner you realise it the sooner you can pick yourself up, dust your knees and make a fresh start for yourself. There’s no point in looking back because it’s gone, the past only gives you a lesson. Learn it and look forward, and pray that you’re smart enough to not make the same mistake.
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